So there is a Twitter Poll question in the most recent issue, and men were asked if they thought women really care about size. 22% said that it matters a lot, and that bigger is always better. Said by someone who will never be limping around the next day, from a too-vigorous date who treated his cock like a battering ram, and gave you bruises where you weren't even aware you could feel pain. Sheesh! And there are different ideas of size. Men usually think that women want a longer truncheon, when in reality our passage isn't really all that long. It stretches, yes, but that can be painful, especially when the cervix gets battered. Ouch! In reality, if women are interested in size at all, most prefer wider over longer. Wider excites more nerve endings.
In the poll, 60% of men said that it only matters a bit, and it's not a deal-breaker. Now that's a much more sensible way of looking at things. Most men average between five-seven inches when raring to go, and much more than that is kind of a waste. Like that old male joke that in regards to breasts, anything more than a mouthful is wasted. Speaking of mouths, if the man wants you to deep throat him? Definitely, less is more! Learning to control that gag reflex is hard enough, without him banging on your tonsils!
The remaining 18% of men said that women actually care less about size, and more about the skill of a man's tongue. Now that's more like it! The female columnist snarked that men who think size matters over oral skills are way off base. Considering that a man is ready instantly, and a woman needs to be won over by the prelims, to get her interested in the final round, that should be obvious...especially to men who claim to want to know how to please a woman. But still there is confusion, where there shouldn't be.
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And if you are still wondering what women want, I can recommend quite a few erotic romance books, some written by me, that will illustrate for you what women find to be hot. It goes beyond men being visual, and women wanting a story. The way to a woman's bed is through her head. Get her mind buzzing and humming with sexual thoughts, and you'll both be satisfied!
BTW, I make a point of having some of my couples discuss size (and birth control) during and after their intimate moments. Men and women who truly care about each other, can talk about anything. And any man who feels inadequate, needs to just ask his woman if there's something else he should be doing. That can lead to fun experiments, as you indulge in each others' fantasies. Always a great way to make more magical and better sex...no matter what size wand you're packing! Remember:
It ain't the size of the wand, it's the skill of the magician!
You can find out more about my erotic romances at: http://www.fionamcgier.com